I’ve sometimes have had friends like Sophia, who as I get to know them I start seeing clues dropped about their outside-the-norm romantic lifestyle choices. And it’s always odd, because I’m too shy to ask until I really feel I have enough clues to feel justified in asking.
Oh, so I was apparently correct a few days ago. Cool. :-)
Sometimes when I see two people sniping like that, I’m tempted to say “Do you guys want to be alone?” Fortunately, I have pretty good impulse control.
It’s not an easy life, I hear. It can take years before a lot of people are convinced that more than one long-term partner is there to stay.