I used to often find when I feel hurt that blaming or hurting others is the first reaction. I’ve come a long way from then, possibly because even then I could see it happen and not act on it for the most part despite it rattling in my head.
I used to often find when I feel hurt that blaming or hurting others is the first reaction. I’ve come a long way from then, possibly because even then I could see it happen and not act on it for the most part despite it rattling in my head.
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It’s a sound defensive reaction. Blaming yourself for feeling bad, even if somebody else caused it, is a peculiar kind of learned behavior intended to be used as somebody else’s defensive reaction. That is, their hurting you causes you to blame yourself, and not the real antagonist, who gets off scot-free. So long as Bruno only imagines visiting vengeance, she’s all right. When she blames herself and then acts on it, well…